I'M UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND!!

I'M UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND!!

Tuesday, Oct12' 2010_ 7.32PM

Written by Desby Mian Berlianty Pasaribu

Let us observe this bizarre phenomenon..

Well, It's been bugging in my head for years like an annoying insect. This is true!!

There are so many questions slithered in my tiny disorder brain.

I've been watching many families whether from television, radio, newspaper, internet and even my father's stories about our relatives..

Yeah, they fight, argue, and yell each other (for several cases they do it in front of their children).

They simply express words that should have not come out from their mouth to her/his partner (wife/husband).

Slaps on face are insignificantly drifted from one's hand who she thinks that he also in love as much as her.

Thwacks adorn her body, a woman that he asked at the Church's Altar to be his companion for the rest of his life.

In my opinion, it is life like in blaze!!! Obvious!!

The place that you think the only place you can find the peace and love turns out become a terrible disaster ever in your short life.

And now, it is not even obtained as a sanctuary.

So many tears, exhausted of the inconvenience situation, anger is flying around fully the atmosphere, burden heart that can't be lifted up by anyone but only him (if only he changed he's attitude).

Where is love?

I mean a family MUST built by a term called LOVE (I think we're all agree with that).

How come a husband beat his dearest wife?

(Sorry, I'm not intended to disfigure men here but in most cases happened women are often as victims).

Were the sweet moments only for dating-times?

The time when cupid pricked his arrow toward them and the world belonged to them only.

Where was the love name that you used to call me with your mellifluous voice gone?

Where were the chocolates that you used to give me on valentine's day melted?

Where were the roses that you used to tease me if I got pissed off at you withered?

Where were the loving-affections that you used to spread like flowers bloom when summer invites?

Where were the love songs that you usually used to sing on Saturday night disappeared?

Where was the romance faded?

When human decides to have a family, she/he must be the one that she/he loves with all her/his heart.

Tell me, who is the one ungrudgingly married with someone that he/she doesn't love at all?

When you verdicted someone to be your only one partner it means that you are accepted her/his weaknesses not only willing to take her/his strengths.

You and She are one now, so why should you have fight anyway?

You've asked her to be your companion for the rest of your life, so why don't you treat her like a precious jewels?

She has sacrificed and devoted her life to you and your children.

What else you want?

One thing that I can tell here for sure is

Every family that have been existing up till this present started from a thing called "FALL IN LOVE"

I still have no idea why such horrible things could happen in a family.

Definitely have no any...